by snowbutterfly on 27 Jun 2007, 23:43
¡Ola pip!
I totally understand your position on this, and very much understand the significance of marking oneself permanently and what that may mean in the future, both the physical reprocussions and the chance of regret.
However, I speak up, because I believe there is something slightly different between "rebelliously irrecovable" and a choice to profoundly mark something forever.
This tattoo that I chose is my third. The first two are hidden and private, while the latest - the one that marks my completion of the camino - is the only one that is in plain view. I thought very hard about getting each of my tattoos, none of them were spontaneous and done in the heat of a moment or some fleeting feeling. Each of these tattoos I have are significant markers in my life and each has a story that is special and meaningful to me.
No, I didn't need to "indelibly mark" myself to proclaim my beliefs, or because it was trendy, or to even prove to others that I walked the camino - that is something that will be inside of me forever, and I feel no need to prove it to anyone.
But I chose to get this tattoo even *before* I started the camino; I knew I would get a third and final one someday and felt compelled to mark this year of my life. It just so happens my journey on the camino played an important part of my journey in life, and this permanent physical symbol will be a constant reminder of what I was able to accomplish and what I still can.
It's all just perspective: Perhaps someday I may regret the stretched or faded markings (and if I really hate them, I'll get laser surgery to remove them. Just joking!) But perhaps they will always stay the special symbols of my transformations, my accomplishments, and my state of being during the times I received them.
I agree with you wholeheartedly that one should think twice about any tattoo. I would simply append one should think very long and hard about it and be absolutely sure why.